true friends

True friends are about having someone that you can trust and count on to be there with you. I feel like having true friends mean that you can have someone that is like family and that you can tell anything to them and they will still like you and never tell anyone unless it is okay to tell someone. I have a true she has been there for me ever since the first day of school and i feel like I can trust her with anything because I know that she wouldn't tell anyone unless she asks me if it is okay if she can tell people. But I think true friends can be the best and the worst friends because there are times that everything is going well and there can also be times when they can turn on you because it might be because of one of there other friends but it also could be something that you have said or done to them or about there friends.

If your friend isn't the person that you thought they would be and they act like they are friend then they aren't worth your time because if they are acting like your friend then they will crush you like a little bug because they want people to be hurt because maybe they were hurt and they want you to be you never know why people would try to hurt other people and act like they are your friend but they is just a big lie. My advice is that it people are trying to be fake friends then don't tell them any of your secrets because they will tell everyone and then people will start hating you because of that person. If they are pushing you around then they aren't good people to be friends with because they will do that everyday and will never stop until you break down crying.

The only way people can be friends for a long time is if you have things in common and you really don't fight with anyone and start things that aren't true. If rumors are going around about your friend and people are say that you started it don't believe it because it will never be true unless you did it. Just explain to your friend that it is just a rumor and that every single thing that has been said isn't and will never be true and they might just think that you are telling the truth. I would just say to that certain person who was telling that big lie to stop because it is not true and that you haven't done anything like that before.

Friends who use you are not true friends. Some people use people for there things and other things like concerts or something and if they do that to you then they aren't good people to be friends with because it doesn't help your friendship in anyway and it makes you a bad influence to others. I had a friend who was using me for my money to buy tickets for a concert and then she lied right to my face saying that she was going to bring her friends that she hasn't seen in forever so I couldn't go anymore and I told my mom and she got so mad because I gave her the money and she bought the tickets and she was going to give my ticket away to another person. So I started to talk to her saying I want my money back and she was saying that she will give me my money back and so she came over and she wouldn't give me my money back because I wasn't going to the concert but I really was. So she wasn't a good friend because she used me just to buy the tickets.

I will have a true friend because I bet they won't use me for things like that because it hurts my feelings and they can mess up on things or not but mostly they will mess up and you will never for give them for that. I think that if people are used they they will true out to use people because they want to know how other people feel about that because they were treated badly or something was going on that no one knew about because they have no friends. If someone treats you badly just let them have it and don't show them that you are upset about it because you are giving them power to control you and your life. No one should ever have to do that to someone because they are different people who have feelings and they might not like the way people treat them.

Someone who treats you badly and you end up not being friends anymore them move on to different people because they will probably treat you better and they will be your friend. If the same person who was treating you badly wants to be your friends again don't do it because they are going to do it over and over again. Never go back to the same person because they will hurt you. If there is no other way to tell them to leave you alone and that you don't want to be your friends "just tell them not to be mean and all but I don't want to be your friends because you hurt me really bad last time and I just don't want to go through that again" I think that that person would understand why you don't want to. If they said "okay" then your not a bad person you just don't want to get hurt again.

If someone you know has a friend like that then I would ask them in a nice way if they are trying to do that because it isn't nice for anyone to be treated that badly. If they have a friend like that then I wouldn't say you can't be friends with that person because that might hurt there feelings. I would just tell try not to get hurt because that is the only thing that you can do because you don't want to hurt there feelings if you do say that because they might stop being your friend after that. But if nothing like that works then say something that will help them feel better and not like they have been used. Just try to make them feel because that is the best thing that you could do at the moment because they are still hurting.

Clearly I think that when people use other people who are acting to be friends with you then don't be there friends because it isn't worth it because they are treating you badly and no one should be treated like that ever. I knew someone like that and when she used me for everything and then she acted like she was all that and all because she thought that everyone liked her when no one did because she did it to everyone. Well after I was told that she was using me by one of her friends I couldn't ever trust her again because she really hurt me and she thought that it wouldn't matter but it does because she can't do that to every person she sees. All in all it is never right to do that to another person who did nothing wrong but the only thing that person might have done was be your friend who you treated badly so it would the person who did it because everyone who was hurt want blame that persons fault.